Well I’ve heard from my orgasmic vag-owning friends that they sometimes have just the tension and release and sometimes it’s super intense, though not necessarily crying. I don’t know of any of my friends crying. I feel like some people don’t react as much physically, because based on our description, my physical reactions are more intense than my friends who have orgasms.
Anyway, surely there are different kinds of orgasms. Wish I could have any.